Newton 'not taking responsibilty for his actions'

Tuesday, November 22, 2011
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Violence
Matthew Newton has spoken for the first time about his battle with mental health problems and allegations of domestic violence, but according to a leading sexuality and gender expert, it's not enough.

Dr Michael Flood, White Ribbon Australia ambassador and expert on gender and sexuality studies from Wollongong University said Matthew Newton is not taking enough responsibility for his actions.

"Matthew Newton's story puts the spotlight on some men's use of violence against women. But it also misleads," he said.

According to Dr Flood, Men who've abused a partner are more likely to stop if:

  • they acknowledge their violent behaviour and the harm it has caused others;
  • make a commitment to change;
  • address their sexist beliefs and sense of entitlement in dominating partners; and
  • seek professional help in perpetrators' programs.

"So far, Matthew Newton hasn't done enough to take responsibility for his actions or commit himself to changing them," he said.

"Matthew Newton emphasised the influence of mental illness on his violence. Yes, mental ill health can be a risk factor for violence. But most men who abuse and control their partners aren't suffering depression or other mental ill health. Instead, they're using violence because they feel entitled to do so.

"Their violence is one way they seek to dominate their partners. Men's violence against women is a symptom of gender inequalities and our culture's tolerance for violence."

This Friday, November the 25 is White Ribbon Day, the UN sanctioned day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women. On this day men are encouraged to swear an oath "Never to commit, excuse or remain silent about violence against women."

Watch the video of Newton above in his A Current Affair interview with Tracey Grimshaw.

What did you think of the interview? Have your say below

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Those who have never had any experience with mental illness are very quick to judge. Mental illness can not be fixed in five minutes, it takes a long time with a lot of ups and downs. Matthew Newton is at the very early stages of getting well, so leave him alone with those who care for him, otherwise you will send him backwards. For those around him , let him have his privacy so he can get well and build on every achievement, in every day. Matthew I wish you well.
Mental illness is real. I would never dispute that, as I myself have bipolar disorder. Bipolar (or manic depressive as the old term) does not mean that you are insane. Mania can (but not always) include psychosis. Mania is defined as a type of affective disorder characterized by euphoric mood, excessive activity and talkativeness, impaired judgment, and sometimes psychotic symptoms, as grandiose delusions. I do not believe that anger and violence should be lumped in with that - or blamed on OCD. People need to take responsibility for their actions in life. Even if this did happen through psychosis - it still happened, and as a human being, Mathew should take responsibility for his actions, apologise and try as best to repair the damaged relationships. I've spent months in a psych hospital. Private psych hospitals are like nice hotels. They are very pleasant, comfortable places to stay and get well. And a nice place to hide from the world when you've done the wrong thing.
I did not watch Matthew Newton's interview, as it is a media attempt to find dirt on the Newton family. Matthew doing a TV interview solves nothing. Many of us live with mental illness, myself included....I have never wanted to take it out on others, including when I have been suicidal. We all make choices in our lives, we can act without thinking or we can think first. I did a pain management course last year as I live in constant pain due to illness. It was my first exposure to pschycology. My advise would be, if you have a problem or think you have a problem - talk to someone about it. Of course the hardest thing is to admit you have a problem. I am in my mid 40's and I am still learning how to deal with pain and depression.
I liked Matthew as an actor. I have read a lot of info concerning this matter. The public are rightly skeptical. How much of his issues are related to drugs? Matthew had enough foresight , and was obvious sane enough to use the justice system when he was charged and beat the charges. Most certainly a different penaltie by the justice system would have resulted for the average person. In my opinion the interview was to convince the public menatl health is to blame, for his actions.
I have just read the reviews here after watching Matthew in his interview last night. I amamazed at some of the comments...people assuming that it is only a man that "beats" women. Mental illness is absolutely rife in this modern country and albeit every medication, social welfare resource and compassionate person, there are still many many people that go undiagnosed and untreated. Diagnosis is merely the label. Treatment whether medication, cognitive or spiritual is still so unreachable for some of these people. My sister is 30yo and very physically beautiful. When she is not well she is incredibly violent and sometimes men twice her size are unable to physically restrain her when it is imperative! I love her and after 14 years of witnessing her illness, homelessness, psychosis and despair I, and the rest of our family are left gutted! She is " dual diagnosis".. an addict and mentally ill. Sometimes the violence is seriously unintentional and they are really sick and need HELP!
I don't feel as if Newton used violence because he felt "entitled" too - his mental illness contributed to this behaviour. I'm not saying that is should be used as an excuse, but I feel that Flood should have recognised that mental illnesses often cause us to do certain behaviours that we wouldn't otherwise consider. As far as I have seen, Newton has apologised for his actions and sought help, so I don't know why Flood has claimed Newton isn't doing enough,
I applaud Matthew Newton for choosing to have this interview, after having been in the spotlight for so long on so many levels, it then must make his situation going through all those horrendous times, so much more difficult not only for him but for his family members also (who have also been in the spotlight for so long). What about so many others in our communities that are and have been through this dibilitating illness, its difficult enough for these people and their families and friends and they haven't got the media breathing down their necks as soon as they dare poke their heads out a door. It doesn't matter what happens to us in life, we are all individuals and therefore no two of us are ever going to respond, cope with or deal with a situation like the person standing next to us. Can this not be the beginning of change for Matthew, without every man and their dog putting him down and constantly judging? I say Live and Let Live, let him just be, none of us walk in his moccasins
Hope thats the last acting pilot we ever see you do ! Dont people such as yourself say your partner is the one with mental illness to hide your abuse ? Yet you have somehow manipulated the situation an play ball the other way....Very clever, however shame on you for blaming Mental illness for your cunningness. People dont choose to have mental illness and is too often bought on by people like you! Where as you are quite different, very calculating, like many other men and woman abusers you chose your actions an only when you are caught are you sorry...for a while.....
attention all soapboxing amateur "psychologists" with an internet degree. matthew newton owes you nothing.
what a joke that interview was. I was a victim of domestic violence by my ex husband who never admitted either that he had a problem. My life was completely destroyed. He beat me and verbally abused on many occasions and one night nearly killed me when he held me up against the wall choking me to death. It is something you never get over. As for Matthew Newton, he couldn't even say that bashing someone's head against the floor is not acceptable and blamed a mental illness for it. Yes he does have an illness but it isn't the same as what he claimed it to be.

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