Few parents would disagree that the toddler years are the most exciting — and busy — in childhood. Between the ages of one and three years your baby is on a voyage of discovery. The little bundle who has relied on you for their every need will undergo many changes. In rapid succession your baby will stand, walk, run and explore. Your toddler will understand and use many new words and gradually put them together. He will be affectionate and he will get cross. And when he is tired or frustrated or wants something he can't have, he might ''throw a wobbly''. Your child is learning to express himself and be independent — as a parent it is your job to guide them through this journey safely. Here's a general overview of what to expect.
Growth and development
There are a number of physical and behavioural signs that serve as a guide to normal development. These developmental milestones can give you an idea of what a child might do at that age. Below is a general guide and there will, of course, be individual differences. Babies grow and develop at different rates and some toddlers will reach milestones earlier than others. You know your child best. If you are at all concerned about your child's development, contact your doctor or baby health nurse.
By 12 months your toddler can:
- pull up to standing position
- get into a sitting position
- move from place to place, always holding on
- clap hands
- babble loudly
- shake his head for no and nod his head to indicate yes
By 18 months your toddler can:
- walk but will fall if he tries to run
- make marks with a pencil
- pick up small objects
- drink from a cup and hold a spoon
- use two words
- listen and follow simple instructions
By two years your toddler can:
- run, squat and walk backwards
- take off clothing
- open doors and drawers
- build a tower of four blocks
- remember two things at a time
- join in with songs and nursery rhymes
By two-and-a-half years your toddler can:
- walk up stairs
- feed himself with a spoon
- use 50 words or more and combine words
- ''feed'' toys
- let people know what he wants with words
- follow a two-step instruction
By three years your toddler can:
- identify four pictures by naming them
- push the pedals on a pedal toy
- throw and catch a ball
- speak clearly and ask questions
- manage toilet training
- start to join in with other children's play
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